Sometimes events, projects and comments keep leading me to think about things in a certain way, developing ideas and concepts that really need discussion. Over the past week, I've received several very nice comments about my FMQ, but have said they were themselves scared to even try FMQ. At the same time, I have had some events at work about measures of mediocrity vs. measures of excellence (note: I'm a Quality Engineer, I measure stuff for a living). Both have led me to verbalizing the difference between striving for excellence and being a perfectionist.
So let's look at the difference.
Perfectionism is the individual's belief that he or she must be perfect to be acceptable.
Perfectionism is black and white with no gray area. Anything other than perfect is failure.
Perfectionism is an attitude, not necessarily a behavior. In other words, two people can
engage in the same behavior such as trying to win an Olympic gold medal but one can be pursuing
excellence and the other is demanding perfection. The difference lies in the thought process
about the goal or behavior, not in the goal or behavior itself.-
Monica A. Frank, Ph.D.
The pursuit of excellence is the desire to attain a goal of excellence, to achieve at a high
level, to be the best that one can be but without the demand attached to the goal or desire.
Pursuing excellence may require tremendous effort and focus as well as other resources. But,
unlike perfectionism, it does not demand a sacrifice of self-esteem as it tends to focus on the process of achievement
rather than the outcome. - Monica A. Frank, Ph.D
Excellence
vs. Perfection
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Perfection
is being right.
Excellence
is being willing to be wrong.
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Perfection
is fear.
Excellence
is taking a risk
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Perfection
is anger and frustration.
Excellence
is powerful
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Perfection
is control
Excellence
is spontaneous
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Perfection
is judgement
Excellence
is accepting
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Perfection
is taking
Excellence
is giving
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Perfection
is doubt
Excellence
is confidence
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Perfection
is pressure
Excellence
is natural
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Perfection is the
destination
Excellence is the
journey
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-author unknown
So, to everyone that aspires to be able to Free Motion Quilt - go for it, don't judge it. Relax, enjoy the process of learning, the joy of improvement, the excitement of accomplishment.
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Pat